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"Anything Else Is A Distraction!"

By: Candice A Donofrio
Friday, December 07, 2007 12:56 PM

WOW! I love guts. Big, happy, all-in, GUTS! Chutzpah. Cojones. Stones.

Check out this cool STORY about the owner of Facebook, a 23 year old who dropped out of Harvard to give his all to his dream, THEN took a huge entrepreneurial risk in turning down the mother of all birds in hand to see that dream through long-term.

Of course, he may be too young at 23 to understand the difference between 240 million and a billion dollars. I don't think I would have had any idea at 'half my age'.

He also may be less aware of the value of time than those who have watched it fly by in later years and seen that it's not infinite in supply.

He may not care about either.

Or is that even the issue? Isn't it more like "in for a penny, in for a pound?" Is there really a price tag at all on excellence and living your bliss?

So many questions came to my jumbled, holiday-partied mind while reading that story:

Do you believe in what you're doing enough that you would refuse a billion dollar offer? How about a million? Can you see 'down the fairway' with key choices you make? Are you looking that far ahead?

Since the future does not exist in the present, is it healthy to focus on the long term to the exclusion of all else? Are we alive if we're not risking every day?

IS BEING OFFERED, THEN TURNING DOWN A BILLION BUCKS THE BIGGEST RUSH?  (I will let you know when I find this out!) :)

Do you believe in what you're doing enough that you would keep going, even if you were in the negative cash flow stage? Many are at this point in many businesses, and certainly in our industry.

Who has the guts and love for their profession to ride out the bumps and keep going? See the stumbling blocks as stepping stones? See why the Chinese character for 'crisis' is a combination of 'opportunity' and 'riding the wind'. Crisis is opportunity blowing your way!

This statement from the article was key for me:

"When you live in alignment, and take responsibility for the choices you make, when you live each day with focus, and make choices that are aligned with your dreams, hopes and visions, then you will own your life."

Anything else is a distraction.

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Comments

Leesa Finley
Member Since '07

Leesa Finley said:

My dear, dear Candice!  This struck a chord.  I have the guts and love what I do; I will NEVER do anything else.  I don't do it for money - I do it because it makes me very, very happy and fulfilled each day.  Negative cash flow?  Been there - never gave up!  I learned from all the situations and falls along the way; I put on my big girl panties and just dealt with it!

So, yep I own my life!  May not always be what some people think it should be but I own it and I make the choices!!!!

December 7, 2007 3:19 PM
Craig Barrett
Member Since '07

Craig Barrett said:

A Billion Bucks??? I might take the money... lol

I'm with Leesa, this is by far the most fulfilling and gratifying profession. Choices I make effect my business and I am grateful I have the ability to do what I want to do as I see fit.

December 7, 2007 4:24 PM
Leesa Finley
Member Since '07

Leesa Finley said:

Craig - You have big girl panties, too?

December 7, 2007 4:34 PM
Velda Miller
Member Since '03

Velda Miller said:

Hands down, I'd take the billion (or just a portion of that) even though I enjoy what I do.  With that much money, I could do so much more than what I do now.  Don't get me wrong, RE is a great profession but it is a job and there is much, much more to life than this.

December 7, 2007 6:39 PM
Belinda Walker
Member Since '06

Belinda Walker said:

I think mine are called "granny" panties, but that's beside the point.

It' is my goal to have $10 Million in liquid assets, so I would not turn down a $billion.  To me, as long as what I do is ethical, it doesn't matter how I reach my goal.  I'm sure there are many forks in the road and I hope to make the right decision when I reach them.  I count on inspired action to reaach my goal.

I love real estate and helping others and if I the way to reach my goal is to continue with it or includes real estate in some way, great.  If not, so be it.  I just wanna be happy, healthy and wealthy all at the same time.

December 7, 2007 6:48 PM
Shelly  Constantz
Member Since '07

Shelly Constantz said:

I would take the billion.  But then I have ADD, not focus!!  <just kidding>

December 7, 2007 9:17 PM
Howard Arnoff
Member Since '03

Howard Arnoff said:

Leesa, what a nice new pic. Candice, you and Luna look especially festive as well.

Oh, what was this about, yeah, I'll take the money.

December 8, 2007 8:31 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

I like the kid's move. He sold only 1.6% of his company for 240 million bucks. And it's worth several bil now.

He did good in that he got a huge amount of play money, plus the potential growth and now the freedom to do what he wants while the growth continues.  

Plus, how many can say that they have a controlling share in a company also owned by Microsoft? :)

December 8, 2007 10:39 AM
Todd Rivers - Broker/Owner
Member Since '04

Todd Rivers - Broker/Owner said:

People get into real estate for a variety of reasons. Mine was, I moved to Florida from snowy cold upstate NY and found that a mechanical engineers job punching a timeclock didnt allow me to do my other new found passion...... GOLF. So real estate so I thought would allow me to do that. Boy was I wrong.

Real estate is now my new passion and if I had 240 Million my real estate passion would put my on a cruise ship headed to the carribbean to by some more real estate. Probably near a GOLF course.

He made a great choice by turning down 1 bil. Sometimes by doing that people want to be the one that finally does buy it. Thus the 1 bil will propbably go to 2-3 bil.

Well time to put on my holy, unattractive man undies and hit the golf course.

Todd Rivers - Broker/Owner

Florida Lighthouse Realty

December 9, 2007 8:11 AM

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