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How's Your Peripheral Vision?

By: Candice A Donofrio
Thursday, January 10, 2008 9:52 AM

So I'm sitting at a video Keno machine (Carey, you'll be even more jealous when you find out how much I won!)  :) this past weekend, playing 4 card Keno. That game has four cards on one screen, and I noticed that when the numbers are being called, almost invariably the card I'm watching is not the one where the most numbers are lighting up.

What? I cannot bend this inanimate object to my considerable will? Doh! ;)

Got me thinking . . .

How often are we overly focused on one 'main' goal, only to find the really good action going on 'on the sidelines' instead?

There's a saying that where attention goes, energy flows.

HOWEVER, we can also block or even negate that energy by bearing down too much, fixating on a result and attaching to an outcome to the exclusion of all else.

It goes back to being flexible, holding on with a light grasp. Adhering to schedule but also moving around, veering off course for a moment and always keeping your eyes open to what is going on around you. Keeping your life and business fresh.

So I set my goals for the day, week etc like always, but I deliberately break away so I don't miss anything I shouldn't be missing. Try it! It makes you feel more in control and less a slave to externals.

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Shelly  Constantz
Member Since '07

Shelly Constantz said:

Yes, candice, we have tapped into each other.. now if we could just mentally get Carey to tune in.  Let's you and I close the door, put our feet up on the desk, and visualize our goal...

Shelly

January 10, 2008 10:56 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

So where are my stars, or is the 1500 I won at Keno reward enough? LOL!  (baiting Carey)

January 10, 2008 10:59 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

Nontaxable, Carey!  ;)

January 10, 2008 10:59 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Good post Candice. I had a terrible day yesterday but woke up this morning realizing that I ended up with 4 offers on the same house. So looking back, with all the stuff that happened yesterday, there was a blessing I forgot to see.

I lost a listing yesterday, and was bummed. But received a call from a friend wanting to list her house in the 200k arena. It's all good.

I am getting rid of this forest today so I can see the trees. lol

January 10, 2008 11:32 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

[Mary sez: I am getting rid of this forest today so I can see the trees.]

That is it, more eloquently put than I could have. You go girl!

January 10, 2008 11:42 AM
Patrick Milligan
Member Since '06

Patrick Milligan said:

All this chat brings me to thinking of my 15 year old coming home from school 2 days ago.  He'd had an epiphany.  This "see the positive and it will be" all came from a movie, "The Secret".  I've never seen the movie, but I was very proud of him for having come up with such a mature thought process, I'm going to have to see it.  Has anyone here seen that movie?

January 10, 2008 11:01 PM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

I've owned a copy since it was released! :)

And cool that your teen is interested!

BTW, training your periphreal vision comes from, among other things, lessons in the Rosicrucian Order studies:

http://www.rosicrucian.org/home.html

Nothing new under the sun but it's great to dust off the old books and take a refresher!

January 11, 2008 9:53 AM
Karen Weger
Member Since '05

Karen Weger said:

Great post Candice. It is almost one of those things we need to be reminded of daily.

I feel so behind some days on all of my web work and paper work, then I come back to reality. Am I selling and closing files. Yes. Got that done. Something worked.

Patrick, the Secret is great, watch it with him. It is something you can watch over and over, it includes the power of postive thoughts. And positive breeds positive.

January 13, 2008 7:23 PM

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