Alright I just have to do this.
This got started on the yahoo group I belong to because of the following:
Lease/tenant of retail strip mall drove his truck to work and parked it in the mall lot. This particular truck has a for sale sign in it. Our city has an ordinance that does not permit for sale vechiles to be parked in public lots and does not allow property owner to grant permission for such use of said lot. Another store tenant reported the vechile ( not sure if tenant b was aware vechile owner was tenant in mall and used the vechile to get to work or not). Vechile owner got tagged by PD to remove vechile.
Now this is and of itself has no bearing here but this is why I brought it over....
The vechile owner posted to the group as to the specific ordinance (wanted to know what it was) another party (well call him B)posted (I am not quoted the whole thing just use of specific words someone let me know if I need permission please) something to the effect that we should live & let live in regards to this and another complaint issued by another resident about a street being used as a parking lot for a commercial construction company working on a new store. Anyway, B stated that he likes to post passionately and stir the pot but more or less used remarks like "whining narcs" that should have sought to reason with the neighbor/other party without involving the PD.
So my question to this fantastic group is this:
When do you live & let live, or turn a blind eye to events around you instead of becoming a "whining narc" on someone breaking a law or ordinance or if we take it one step further :
When do you report another agent violating mls regulations (branded tours, or bonuses in the wrong place), ethics or so on
Is it ok if it doesnt hurt anyone (cars for sale in lots)
Is it ok to walk away from the neighbor with the black eye after you could hear the fight the night before (after all they are over 21 and its their relationship right)
Is is ok to walk away from the child who cowers and has more odd bruising, and broken bones then you can count?
Shall I go on?
when do you approach a neighbor you dont know who is welding at 1030-11pm in his front yard three doors down across the street and the stereo is so loud that your brick home is vibrating to the beat?
Or when do you utilize the local services you pay for as a citizen?
Just curious
Mary T.