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Mountain Musings by Sharron

Knowledge + Ethics + People Skills = Top Real Estate Representation

By: Sharron and Steve Lobman
Saturday, June 02, 2007 9:56 AM

I have read with great interest, the comments at another post lamenting the lack of stringent training and testing prior to the issuing of a real estate license to a licensee. While I would agree that the testing process seems to merely "weed out" the illiterate and the undisciplined, it is my contention that the real root of the public's mistrust of the real estate industry stems from incompetent agents who lack ethics and people skills.

In this "Age of Information," it is not so difficult for a willing and intelligent person to find the knowledge that he or she is seeking. I, like most newer agents, am highly aware that my broker and other more experienced agents, possess more knowledge of real estate than I do. For that reason, I consult with and learn from my broker to be sure that I am providing each client with accurate information and expert advice and guidance. He is my "on the job" mentor. Additionally, I participate in this "Online Mentorship," and I freely ask questions and seek information from reliable sources. With each day that passes,  I learn more and I become better prepared to serve my clients.

On the other hand, I do not think that honest and ethical behavior or good people skills can easily be learned. To me, these are the greatest limitations of the more incompetent agents.

It seems that each and every day since I have become a real estate agent, I have been confronted with an opportunity to "do the wrong thing." Whether it is a neighbor who would  like to "pay me a little sumpin' sumpin'" to sell his house without the broker's knowledge; the seller who wants me to ignore the proposed prison that will be built across the street; or the little old lady who wants me to "tell her what I think" about another brokerage in town, opportunities for dishonesty and unprofessionalism abound to an extent that I have never before experienced.

Then lets talk about "people skills." I have truly been stunned by the number of agents who have let me know that they HATE working with buyers. They hate "carting them around." These agents freely admit  (and I quote) "I want to sit in my office and have contracts brought to me."  Too often these listing agents do not spend money on advertising, but rely on another agent to find a buyer for their listing.

I am of the opinion, that a person who cares about people would understand that accepting a listing is a great responsibility. You are promising the seller that you will do everything legitimately within your power to sell their property in a timely manner and at the best price possible. That responsibility includes spending money for advertising, and taking the time to communicate with the seller frequently and honestly.

Even though I am a newer agent, I have confidence that my honesty, intelligence and love of people truly outweighs my lack of experience in the profession.

It takes a special person to "have what it takes" in this business. The Reliberation participants that I have met here are a noisy, opinionated and energetic group of agents and brokers who truly represent the best and brightest. I love the "spirited" discussions and the witty repartee.

You bring light and hope to this business of serving others as they make extremely important real estate decisions.

Have a great day!

 Sharron Lobman

 

 

 

 

 

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Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

In other words--honesty is the best policy!

June 2, 2007 9:52 AM
Mike Farmer
Member Since '03

Mike Farmer said:

All the things we learned in kindergarten. It's amazing, innit?

But, you are right, it is difficult to teach these things unless someone is open to that kind of personal growth.

June 2, 2007 9:57 AM
Carmen and Jeff Bills
Member Since '07

Carmen and Jeff Bills said:

Well said, I agree that you cannot teach people skills. They are part of the fabric of a well rounded agent

June 2, 2007 10:02 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Sharon, I so agree. There are people in real estate, retail, and other areas that should not be there. Hopefully, they will find this out. I too have had people ask me to do some wrong things. I had a commercial listing one time and the buyers agent brought me an offer and said he will be paying more but not on the contract. He wanted to pay some cash and have it not show for tax purposes. He didn't want the taxes higher on the property. I told her I would present the offer to my seller but I would not recommend to my seller that we do business that way. The agent told me this is done all the time. I informed her that this is not how I do business. I presented the offer and the seller asked me how I felt about this. I told her she would have to claim to have sold it for contract price but she would be lying. She told me to refuse the offer and not to counter. I did, the agent got mad. The buyer called my seller and said I didn't present the offer right so he wanted to explain. He explained. She told him to take a long jump off a short pier.

The buyer now hates me, fine. Someone else bought the property and did it right. I have no respect for that agent.

June 2, 2007 10:07 AM
Jay & Francy Thompson  REALTORS®
Member Since '05

Jay & Francy Thompson REALTORS® said:

Mary - there is a word for that. It's called "fraud". Quite illegal. I'm not big on "ratting out" agents for every minor infraction, but committing what is likey a felony is hardly a minor infraction....

June 2, 2007 10:13 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Jay, exactly. In my 8 years of RE I choose to communicate with other agents via email. I would love her to say something like this in an email. But back then, it was all verbal, until I knew what I was dealing with. "When someone shows you what they are, believe them". She knew what she was asking. She should have set her buyer straight. He bought something else, I imagine he did the same thing and got by with it since it was a commercial fsbo.

June 2, 2007 10:20 AM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

Mary,

That is my point exactly! I have been so impressed with the caliber of people who participate in these discussions.It would seem to me that this agent had a serious lack of ethics that probably no amount of education could fix. I remember when all educators were required to take an ethics course. I was stunned to learn that what is OBVIOUSLY UNETHICAL to most of us, is truly acceptable to a small portion of the population. Most shockingly, these people could not understand why something was unethical, even when we tried to explain it to them! It just wasn't within their realm of reality!

June 2, 2007 10:32 AM
Klaus Nicholson
Member Since '07

Klaus Nicholson said:

Great post Sharron.  I do have a problem with the phrase "special person"  if you meant honest and dedicated "rare" comes to mind. I think ordinary people that are honest and hardworking make some of the best realtors.

There are piers in Kansas?

June 2, 2007 10:33 AM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

Klaus,

I definitelly agree that "ordinary people that are honest and hardworking make some of the best realtors." In fact, honesty and hardwork should lead to success in any field or aspect of life!

June 2, 2007 10:43 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Klaus, lol.

No, there are no piers in Kansas except for Pier One Imports.

If we had to tell someone to jump off anything we have to send them elsewhere. So, typically, it is "take a hike".

We do have curbs here so we can "kick them to the curb".

lol

June 2, 2007 10:58 AM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

lol!!! Mary, how about take the nearest tornado out of here!

June 2, 2007 11:03 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Sharon, I think I prefer "I'll get you, my pretty, and your little dog too" but they might take that too personal. lol

June 2, 2007 11:06 AM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

lol

June 2, 2007 11:47 AM
Todd Clark
Member Since '06

Todd Clark said:

This why I love asking questions here at RElib. I know I can get the answers I am looking for and I am working with people who are the most knowledgable and upstanding people in the Real Estate business today.

Todd

June 2, 2007 12:28 PM
Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

When I was a newbie, I went on several listing appt's w/my Broker.  Tried her approach on my own, didn't work (not completely different personalities, but different enough that I couldn't carry it off).  Then I tried my own approach:  I've never had a listing, therefore I'll be able to devote all of my time and efforts to you.  Here's what I know, and I know what I don't know, but here are my resources.  Got the listing.  Sold it for more than he expected and in less time than he thought.  He's one of my "raving fans".  Carries my cards around in his wallet.

From that point on, I've had my own approach.  Compassion for the situation, complete honesty and hard work.

One "line" that I do still use from my Broker?  "Do you want me to tell you what you want to hear, or what you need to hear?"  I can carry that one off every day.  It's up front, honest, and most people appreciate it.  If they don't....NEXT.

June 2, 2007 1:16 PM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

Cathy,

I am going to steal that line! It is so true!

June 2, 2007 1:59 PM
Sharron and Steve Lobman
Member Since '06

Sharron and Steve Lobman said:

Todd,

I absolutely agree with you. If you are doing wrong, watch out for the outraged posts!

June 2, 2007 1:59 PM

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