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Peanuts, Popcorn, Asterisk

By: Shelly Constantz
Monday, September 17, 2007 11:02 AM

What?  isn't it supposed to be Peanuts, Popcorn, CrackerJack?  The familiar call of America's Game?  We are baseball fanatics in our house.  Football is considered an off-season sport, to be enjoyed once the World Series is over.  This year saw Barry Bonds hit his 756th homerun, beating the previous record held by Hank Aarons record, held for about 30 years.

But there is controversy surrounding this homerun record.  Did he use performance enhancing drugs?  Drugs that are illegal?  If so, does he deserve this honor?  First, it is important to note that Barry Bonds is one heck of a hitter.  To see that ball at the speed that is going and make a contact with the bat... well it is just amazing. No question that performance enhancing drugs DID NOT help him with that.  The question is, would he have had the power to turn those hits into homeruns without performance enhancing drugs?  Those drugs strengthen, and allow extra power.  Hank didn't have them.

The 756th homerun ball is now owned by a gentleman named Mark Ecko.  And he wants you to decide what to do with it.  You can go to this website:  http://www.vote756.com/   and cast your vote.  There are 3 choices, you can vote to a) bestow it to the Baseball Hall of Fame as it is; b) Have it branded with an asterisk to mark the footnote regarding performance enhancing drugs and bestow it to the Hall of Fame; or c) have it banished to outerspace, never to be seen again.

As you read this, I am hoping that you are searching your soul for the right thing to do.  Yes the right thing to do with that ball, but also what is the right thing to do in your Real Estate Career.  You might be tempted to take an "easy way out", make a shortcut, enhance somewhere... but if it is illegal or morally wrong, why would you?  You brand yourself with an asterisk.  Or worse, get banished. You might get the game win, or the record, but will you truly win over the long term?

Stay true to yourself.  Play the game straight. And at the end of the game, you will know that you have played YOUR game, and no one can question your methods or enhancements.  You will know what you are capable of and can be extremely proud of what you accomplished.  And your fans (clients) will love you more for it.  They will know that they are associating with the right kind of agent. 

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Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

I voted asterisk.  Barry will unfortunately always have the stigma of steroids attached to his name.  As will Mark Maguire and others.  I have to say though, that Maguire dissappoints me more than Bonds.  When he broke the single-season record in 1998 (Bonds beat that in 2001) my son was 7 years old and our whole house was so wrapped up in the excitement and watching Maguire meet his son at home-plate.  

It is also true though that many athletes believe they must get that extra edge to compete in their league.  Some Agents believe this, too.  It is unfortunate because that stigma then attaches itself to the entire league or, in our case, profession.

September 17, 2007 6:41 AM
Craig Barrett
Member Since '07

Craig Barrett said:

Shelz, Excellent post and great analogy! I voted (b) asterick*. We're a baseball family too. Catz, I'm with you. Stay true to your game.

September 17, 2007 7:05 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

Inspiring, Shelly! Asterisks were always too tiny for me. I prefer an exclamation point!   :)  :)

September 17, 2007 7:05 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

Oh, and I vote C. Banish it. Make some new records!

September 17, 2007 7:06 AM
Mike  Robins
Member Since '06

Mike Robins said:

Good morning Shelly,

(IMHO) I believe the professional sports world is so screwed up that "Hank" is probably rolling over in his grave at the outrageous money involved.

The whole Barry Bonds thing as with many things today has been such a fiasco that I really don't care what he does at this point. He has tarnished and left doubt in the minds of fans about this great accomplishment. Could he have done it without the steroids will always prevail in conversations forever. He probably could have but we will never know for sure.

Take the ball for what its worth and put it on display in the front room,

Sell it on e-bay or just give it back to "Barry" that would be the best thing to do with it.

In sports as in Real Estate the competitiveness of it makes people do things that maybe they would not otherwise do in an effort to get one up on the others.

Take a Real Estate agent who edits the photos on a property in an effort to make it look way better than it is, Or adds a statement like (needs a little TLC) when it really should be (needs a demo) so they can get people to come and see it. No this isn't quite as bad as steroids but it is none the less not what it appears to be, As long as people are willing to pay money and support there state or local teams we will always have those who try to be one up on the others any way they can. The same goes for Real Estate and any other competitive business. (IMHO)

September 17, 2007 7:20 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Hmm, cheating, how to deal with it. When a kid cheats in school do we take that test paper and post it on the wall with the good grade received from cheating? No. It just doesn't count. Rules were broken.

I am all for expecting good character and not rewarding bad.

Could he have hit the ball without? No, because he thought he needed drugs. Can't do it if you can't think it.

Just my 2 cents.

September 17, 2007 7:37 AM
Shelly  Constantz
Member Since '07

Shelly Constantz said:

Great Responses, Ya'll. I expected nothing less.  Mary, I am assuming you are voting to banish?  LOL!!  

September 17, 2007 7:42 AM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Shelly, yes. Banish with capital B. Or yet, just give it back to him, let him know it means nothing to anyone else.

September 17, 2007 7:49 AM
Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

Mike, good comment.  But Hank isn't dead yet.  

September 17, 2007 7:55 AM
Mike  Robins
Member Since '06

Mike Robins said:

Whoops lol.

September 17, 2007 8:08 AM
Vance Remele
Member Since '06

Vance Remele said:

Asterick*.

Vance

September 17, 2007 8:19 AM
Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

I actually had to check myself, Mike!  I recalled he recorded a message to Bonds and it was played at his record-breaking game.  But thought, Hey! I could have missed his obit!   I thought it was very telling that neither Aaron nor the commish were present for that game.  

September 17, 2007 8:21 AM
Vanessa Stalets
Member Since '07

Vanessa Stalets said:

Totally lost, not much into sports(ack, will I be banished now?)

But it is always so much fun to read all of your thoughts.*wink*

September 17, 2007 8:40 AM
Candice A Donofrio
Member Since '07

Candice A Donofrio said:

Yah but Vanessa this is about real estate! And shooting straight. With an exclamation point!  :)

September 17, 2007 8:46 AM
Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

Never banished, Nessa!

September 17, 2007 8:57 AM
Belinda Walker
Member Since '06

Belinda Walker said:

I don't really want to turn this into a sports commentary, but relate this to the incident with the Pats recently - caught recording other team's signals.  Many of us say "it's part of the game, gotta get the edge."

Is the steroids issue any different than that?  Is any cheating different that - whether it be sports, RE or life?  We can't have a double standard - punish one and not the other.

September 17, 2007 9:52 AM
Michael Klijanowicz
Member Since '07

Michael Klijanowicz said:

Asterisk all the way!

September 17, 2007 11:29 AM
Jana Davis & Virginia Houghton
Member Since '05

Jana Davis & Virginia Houghton said:

I like Mike's suggestion, keep it on display in the front room.  That is until all the evidence is in.  Isn't the drug issue still in court?  We are still supposed to be innocent until proven guilty.

But in RE we are looked at the same way, guilty.  You have to prove you are honest and trustworthy to your clients.  And the only way to do that is to take the highroad!  

September 17, 2007 4:13 PM
Mary Welch
Member Since '04

Mary Welch said:

Jana, I didn't know the details, so if we don't know yet, let's just hang on. No hangin for now.

September 17, 2007 4:19 PM
Cathy  Clark
Member Since '06

Cathy Clark said:

Beez, the only thing I find questionable about the Pats thing is that those signals are being sent from the sidelines to the field.  Out there for all to see anyway.  This is what I don't get.  

If you signal from your sideline that your seller will accept, say $350K on a $450K house, and I intercept that signal, am I wrong for taking advantage of that on behalf of my Buyer?  You put it out there.....

September 17, 2007 6:13 PM
Belinda Walker
Member Since '06

Belinda Walker said:

I'm with you on it Cathy.  Playing devil's advocate...if they are going to punish Pete Rose for gambling, the Pats for taping signals, then...

September 20, 2007 8:06 PM

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